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Q: I am finding it difficult to meet a man that wants a relationship with me rather than just sex. I am 23 years old, what is my problem?
| A: If all the men you meet don't want a relationship with you than maybe you have to look at what it is that you are doing to attract men who are not willing to commit and who only want you for pleasure. How do you dress? How do you present yourself? How do you "behave" in public? Also, what are your standards? Do you let men know at the very beginning that you are not looking for just "fun" and that you are actually looking for something serious. Don't be afraid to let men know what you are looking for and what you won't tolerate, it will save you a lot of time and headaches! |
Q: I have a man, but he has girl. He promised me he would leave her but he didn't! It's been 7 months now that we are in this situation! I love him and I don't want him to leave me! What should I do ?
| A: He is not going to leave her, you know it, I know it and he knows it. He has been stringing you along for 7 months now, it's time for you to put an end to it and leave him. |
Q: Do you think happiness lasts? It seems like every time someone is happy, one day or another a problem comes up.
| A: Happiness is a choice that YOU make every morning when waking up. Your thoughts become your reality so if you Believe that every time someone is happy a problem comes up, well that's EXACTLY what's going to happen, because that's what you believe. When you wake up tomorrow morning, CHOOSE to be happy! Problems will always come and go, it's how to react to them that matters. |
Q: What's the BEST way to charm a guy?
| A: Be yourself. |
Q: Do you think that 2 good friends can develop a lover relationship?
| A: One of the most important factors for a successful relationship is friendship. If two lovers are just lovers and not friends, the relationship will most likely fail. So being friends with someone before you become lovers is a great foundation to a healthy relationship. |
Q: You say that you are a very religious woman. Do you often take advices or ideas from the Bible ? How does it change your perception of what is a true woman?
| A: I constantly am inspired by the Bible, if that's what you mean. I think that the Bible is a book full of life lessons and I read it 15 minutes every morning, yes I do! As for the last part of the question, it doesn't change my perception of what a 'true' woman is, it has MOLDED my perception of what a 'true' woman is. |
Q: If you are in a relationship and your boyfriend has a problem staring at other women. What would you do?
| A: Let's be real; YOUR man looks at other women when you are not around, yes honey he does. Doesn't mean that he is a dog, or that he doesn't love you, it's just in his nature like it or not. However it's a hole other story if he does it while you are around, that means that he doesn't have much respect for you. If that were to happen to me, after letting him know that I have a problem with him looking at other women, if he doesn't change his behavior, there's nothing else for me to do than to - As I always say - Kick is A-- to the curve! |
Q: If you won 1 million dollars. What would be the first 3 things you would do?
| A: 1. Buy my mother the house of her dreams. 2. Give some of the money to my family and friends. 3. Invest the remaining amount. |
Q: Do you think you are better than other women?
| A: I was having a similar conversation the other day with someone. I'm not trying to set myself up to be some sort of Godess among all human. I am just a woman who has learned alot out of life and decided to share her knowledge with others. There are way too many young girls out there who idolize the women that they see dancing in music videos and I just hope to be a better role model for them. |
Q: Why don't you ever try to help men?
| A: Well I actually do have a few male coachees and my life coaching services are available to men and women. In my video blogs I guess I use the term ladies or women alot but I can assure you that it goes out to both men and women depending on what the subject is of course. |
Q: What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sexe?
| A: Confidence. |
Q: If a man did not have a job yet approached you and showed interest and showed interest. Would you give him a chance?
| A: It depends, it depends on his desire to grow. I mean, is he willing to one day get a job, does he have a plan for his future or is he planning to just sit around and be a "good for nothing type of man"? I truly believe that it doesn't matter where you have been or even where you are right now, the question is: Now that you are HERE, what are you planning to do NEXT? |
Q: What advice would you give to a girl who was in an abusive relationship.....The man even hit her while she was pregnant with their child. She calls the cops and feels guilty for messing his life up. His family blames her. any advice?
| A: What happend, happend, he hit her and even if he is the father of her children or even her husband, if he did it once, he will do it twice. My advice for the girl AND her baby is to LEAVE. An abusive relationship will not only affect and hurt her but also her child and it's better to leave now that the baby doesn't understand what's going on than to wait and raise the kid in a violent home, because he didn't choose to grow up in a violent environment and also can't choose to leave that enviorement, but the mother sure can. |
Q: Where were you born?
| A: I was born and raised in Montreal, Canada. |
Q: Is it true you are bisexual? Or before that?
| A: I don't believe that there is a way that you can be bisexual and then become heterosexual from one day to another. Your sexual orientation is not a choice that you make so to answer your question no I am not bisexual. |
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